handle more RAPIDS version formats in update-version.sh (#1017)

Contributes to rapidsai/build-planning#13.

Updates `update-version.sh` to correctly handle RAPIDS dependencies like `cudf-cu12==24.2.*`.

### How I tested this

The portability of this updated `sed` command was tested here: rapidsai/cudf#14825 (comment).

In this repo, I ran the following:

```shell
./ci/release/update-version.sh '0.36.00'
git diff

./ci/release/update-version.sh '0.37.00'
git diff
```

Confirmed that that first `git diff` changed all the things I expected, and that second one showed 0 changes.

Authors:
  - James Lamb (https://github.com/jameslamb)

Approvers:
  - Peter Andreas Entschev (https://github.com/pentschev)
  - Ray Douglass (https://github.com/raydouglass)

URL: #1017

Author: jameslamb

ci/release/update-version.sh

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ DEPENDENCIES=(
 )
 for FILE in dependencies.yaml; do
   for DEP in "${DEPENDENCIES[@]}"; do
-    sed_runner "/-.* ${DEP}==/ s/==.*/==${NEXT_RAPIDS_SHORT_TAG_PEP440}\.*/g" ${FILE};
+    sed_runner "/-.* ${DEP}\(-cu[[:digit:]]\{2\}\)\{0,1\}==/ s/==.*/==${NEXT_RAPIDS_SHORT_TAG_PEP440}.*/g" "${FILE}"
   done
 done