[data grid] List view implementation improvements

[KenanYusuf]

Follow up issue to improve the implementation of the list view feature. See #14393.

Suggestions to consider implementing

• Encapsulate gridVisibleListColumnFieldsSelector and gridVisibleColumnFieldsSelector in a single selector [DataGrid] List View #14393 (comment)

• Consider abstracting the if (listView) then getListColumn else getColumn logic in a single function (likely getColumn). Avoids introducing a check on listView in unrelated places. [DataGrid] List View #14393 (comment)

• Set the visible columns in a way that avoids adding diverging functions for list view and normal view. [DataGrid] List View #14393 (comment)

• Combine the unstable_listView and unstable_listColumn props [DataGrid] List View #14393 (comment)

• Renaming listColumn to listViewColumn [DataGrid] List View #14393 (review)

• Automatically switch to list view at a configurable breakpoint [DataGrid] List View #14393 (comment)

• Once the toolbar redesign [DataGrid] Experimental toolbar #14611 has happened, consider adding a sort item to the toolbar [DataGrid] List View #14393 (comment)