[SPARK-44942][INFRA] Use Jira notification options to sync with Github

### What changes were proposed in this pull request?

The dev/github_jira_sync.py does not work well these days, this PR tries to solve this issue by using a much more reliable service - https://cwiki.apache.org/confluence/display/INFRA/Git+-+.asf.yaml+features#Git.asf.yamlfeatures-Jiranotificationoptions

And maybe we can remove dev/github_jira_sync.py but I don't know where we run this script yet.
### Why are the changes needed?

for jira and github sync

### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?

no

### How was this patch tested?

Took a tour of a few Apache projects

### Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

no

Closes apache#42750 from yaooqinn/SPARK-44942.

Authored-by: Kent Yao <[email protected]>
Signed-off-by: Dongjoon Hyun <[email protected]>

Author: yaooqinn

.asf.yaml

@@ -36,3 +36,4 @@ notifications:
   pullrequests: [email protected]
   issues: [email protected]
   commits: [email protected]
+  jira_options: link label